
A group of woman met for lunch to discuss their frustration with people who are just too happy, and it went like this...
" I have a friend who is always so excited to share every little thing she reads or hears, but I'm tired of hearing it". Another lady pipes in, "My mom is one of those people who get overly excited talking about a new supplement
(the tenth of it's kind) that just leaves her feeling FABULOUS that she forgets she's told me this ten times before," growls another. This woman interrupts eager to tell... "I have a friend who will call me in the middle of the day just to leave a message about something that has her so excited that she can't wait until I get off work to talk about, only to have it be nothing."
The chatter circulated around the table and some point I had left the conversation and gone to that place in my head that I heard myself saying
I've done that, and I just did that...oh my gosh, am I one of...and suddenly my attention was drawn the the fact that the conversation had yielded to me. Not having had enough time in my head to draw a conclusion on how I felt about all this, I grinned, shrugged my shoulders and hesitantly admitted to having done all of those things-This week.
So I'm one of those woman who fall head-over-heels in love, talk to my friends and family on the phone every single day(because typing or
texting just won't cut it), I get ramped up about any new tidbit of information I learn. Every good meal I enjoy is
off-the-charts, and each vacation is the best one I've ever been on in my life. After hearing these woman unable to relate to this excitement, I thought
how COULD it be?
How could EVERY single thing be SOOO exciting?
Am I over-the top?
I've spent some time examining this very thing, and all I come up with is that
I Want it to be exciting. We've all heard adults talk about the
good-old-days, or the fun they had when they were a younger. My question is this, why does that have to end? While it may make us a bit nervous, we must admit that we all enjoy seeing the child having so much fun that it induces the potty dance,
because for a minute we remember what that great fun was like. I think deep down we all want to share in that, we just loose touch with the
how.
I enjoy making good fun in my life-even if at times I am that person
others see as
ridiculously excited.
In fact, the next time I find myself at the table with a group of ladies who are unsure about these unorthodox levels of excitement, I've decided on a few suggestions to up their heart rate, and if I'm lucky it may offer them just what they needed to feel
tumultuously charged.
Here are just a few that I personally believe will be sure help you accomplish this.
Go skinny dipping with your
spouse (for those of you who are unsure about baring it all-keep in mind you are the only naked woman around-and that's hot no matter how you look at it),. Invite your husband/wife to take dance lessons with you, or just turn on the dance music at home.
Pack a picnic lunch and discover a new feel-good spot in your area to share with your girl friends.
Jump on a trampoline with your kids (may or may not be a good idea-maybe just try hop-scotch).
Plan an travel adventure-go hiking, white water rafting, or zip lining through the jungle.
No matter
what it is, it feels good to take time to re-discover things you really enjoy doing, and then to DO THEM often. Abandoning our adult reservations to have some fun is a good reminder of what life is suppose to feel like. So if your not having fun, try it. Who knows, you may enjoy it so much that you find yourself doing the potty dance!
So go on, have fun already!